You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Daydream Engineer said:
I dont trip anymore about women either. I was asking this question because today as i walked out of my first class i saw an HB 9.5 stop and yelled " Slave..... hurry up!", and then as she walked down the hallway,a nerdy looking guy came running holding several books and walked next to her... gave her a coke.... and then she threw it on the ground and yelled at his face.." i said Diet! you loser", and i was shocked as he ran back struggling with books in hand . She caused a scene... and everyone was looking at her and i said " What aaaaaaa B1tch" out loud... and people went " ooaahh'... and she got in my face and said " Who calling a B1tch... you f*cking azzhole!', and i told her....." You and your mom because like mother like daughter... your acting like a demonB1tch and your behavoir is unacceptable .". I walked away.... and she followed me demanding me to tell her who i was to call her that... and i ignored her.. and then after a couple moments she said that she can get any guy to do anything... and i told her.... " maybe... but im a real man and your not even that attractive... your eyes are yellow and your cellulite is showing".Solomon said:
I believe by being independent..... and not caring about women... since they are everywhere is the water the neutralizes the puzzy power fire. But since many AFcs have given her a princess reality... the best thing to do is to only concentrate on yourself.Mike32ct said:
I completely agree... i believe that she should be trying to catch me...she should be paying for the rockstar sex i give her.... and the experience of taking my time to hangout with her hahaslaog said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She didnt have cellutite i disillusioned her and lied to her.... but i love ****ing with her mind... the hotter the girl the more insecure she is right?Solomon said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Daydream Engineer said:
Damn...