"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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In what situation do I make the move?

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321 I'm The Bomb

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OK guys, I've met a girl who I think is definitely the sort of girl I would like to have a relationship with. We met back in August and slept together around September/October. Since then we have become really good friends and have contact with each other most days. The thing I want to know is in what situation do I ask her if she wants to take things to the next level? Do I ask her out for tea and do it, do I just call round and see her and do it, do I just slip it in general conversation etc etc. All help and advice will be GREATLY appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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women have the power to determine where the relationship goes. the more domineering/control freak men will think what i am saying is silly, but i guess they like weak women.
 
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Well I have been getting a few hints that she wants me to ask her, so back to my question, how should I go about this?
 
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I'll tell you what to do. Get 2 numbers of HB8+, who you find reeally attractive. Call them 2, and then you post again, asking for this same advice.

You'll see, you'll see.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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