"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In what situation do I make the move?

321 I'm The Bomb

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OK guys, I've met a girl who I think is definitely the sort of girl I would like to have a relationship with. We met back in August and slept together around September/October. Since then we have become really good friends and have contact with each other most days. The thing I want to know is in what situation do I ask her if she wants to take things to the next level? Do I ask her out for tea and do it, do I just call round and see her and do it, do I just slip it in general conversation etc etc. All help and advice will be GREATLY appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DeathDealer

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women have the power to determine where the relationship goes. the more domineering/control freak men will think what i am saying is silly, but i guess they like weak women.
 

321 I'm The Bomb

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Well I have been getting a few hints that she wants me to ask her, so back to my question, how should I go about this?
 

SamePendo

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I'll tell you what to do. Get 2 numbers of HB8+, who you find reeally attractive. Call them 2, and then you post again, asking for this same advice.

You'll see, you'll see.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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