"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In person game at college campus

biggoal

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So, as you know I sell phone accessories and such as kiosks at a fleamarket ( I own the business.) Anyway the local university has a weekly farmers market I can sell some of my stuff at. They have one out by the library and then on the weekend they have one outside of student housing. I know the student housing one would bring me into contact with a lot of chicks probably.

So what's the key here for game in a setting like this since I'm not a student but might be having access to a lot of coeds?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2Rocky

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Best thing to do is to hand out personal bibles on college campuses. Chicks LOVE that.....

Ask them if they have accepted Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior.....

 

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You notice which girls that are into you then proceed not to fark it up all the way to sex.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It’s obviously a face to face real life situation. Why even ask that question…
Git your head straight Luke.
There is a lot of old bashing on here and old horror stories.
 

Hal9000

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The only way I've found to hook up with college girls is to get then in a party environment but then again I'm in my 40s and have no access to them otherwise.
 

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The key here is to be doing what your supposed to be doing there in the first place and not make the coeds your priority.
If you hit it off or catch a vibe with a women then great.
Have fun with them.
I guess the easiest way would be meeting them and hoping to get invited to a party at the dorms.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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So, as you know I sell phone accessories and such as kiosks at a fleamarket ( I own the business.) Anyway the local university has a weekly farmers market I can sell some of my stuff at. They have one out by the library and then on the weekend they have one outside of student housing. I know the student housing one would bring me into contact with a lot of chicks probably.

So what's the key here for game in a setting like this since I'm not a student but might be having access to a lot of coeds?
If its your biz, stay the ****kkk in your lane. Stay on your own purpose.SSet parameters to pickup. Trip to the airport, coffeehouse, gym grocery store, etc.

The fallout is not worth the risk. Given the fact that you posted the following, i can imagine that abysmal game. Don't do it.
 

EyeOnThePrize

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Be charming and friendly. Make subtle jokes and make moves on the girls that giggle excessively. Not really rocket science.
 
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