Met this girl 35, real good looking and banging body. We started talking on the phone and that lead to some phone sex in which she had three orgasms using her vibrator. After a few days we met in a restaurant and then agreed to go to her place, I started with the foreplay to get the juices going and then some penetration it was already two hours and I had come three times and she had none, after this we met like four times and the same thing always happens , me trying to do anything possible to try to make her orgasm using all my techiniques,oral, 45 minutes of foreplay, fuqing her for hours,hitting the g-spot It also ocurred to me that she only cums with the vibrator, so we tried that and failed. This has never happened to me with any past girls this is frustrating. She mentioned to me that happens sometimes and that it's not me. I dont think it's me cause she couldnt orgasm with the vibrator.Or is it my presence that makes her feel nervous? PLease help.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
In need of some advice.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
Dated a girl who was a chronic masturbator with a vibrator. She had trouble getting off with me. Eventually she started having trouble with her vibrator as well. Those things desensitize man, don't feel bad.
Also, keep in mind that orgasm is to a large part an emotional process.
Also, keep in mind that orgasm is to a large part an emotional process.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Yep. There is nothing in nature that is similar to what a vibrator does (aside from hummingbird wings, good luck masturbating with one of those).
The other thing I noticed with the "hard to get off women" is that they ride, or rode, horses a lot. Smashing the c1it against the saddle a buh-zillion times doesn't make it any more sensitive.
The other thing I noticed with the "hard to get off women" is that they ride, or rode, horses a lot. Smashing the c1it against the saddle a buh-zillion times doesn't make it any more sensitive.
bigjohnson
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Well, my experience has been different than that - for me the easiest to get off have been chicks who masturbate a lot. They know what works for them. One that had three vibes kept popping way before *I* was ready - like within just a few minutes. When she said "Ooooh don't stop" it was code for "Get your nut off because we're almost done and then you can stop".
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
I've had one of these as well, but she didn't use the mega vibrator that the other chic did. The 1st chic was using a huge muscle massager whereas teh second girl used normal sized rabbits etc.bigjohnson said:Well, my experience has been different than that - for me the easiest to get off have been chicks who masturbate a lot. They know what works for them. One that had three vibes kept popping way before *I* was ready - like within just a few minutes. When she said "Ooooh don't stop" it was code for "Get your nut off because we're almost done and then you can stop".
The first chic, hard as hell to get off. Second chic, would get off 3x or more during penetration. Easily best lay ever.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
bigjohnson
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Never done one that used the mega-plug-in-the-wall **** basher. You could have a point there.