Met this girl 35, real good looking and banging body. We started talking on the phone and that lead to some phone sex in which she had three orgasms using her vibrator. After a few days we met in a restaurant and then agreed to go to her place, I started with the foreplay to get the juices going and then some penetration it was already two hours and I had come three times and she had none, after this we met like four times and the same thing always happens , me trying to do anything possible to try to make her orgasm using all my techiniques,oral, 45 minutes of foreplay, fuqing her for hours,hitting the g-spot It also ocurred to me that she only cums with the vibrator, so we tried that and failed. This has never happened to me with any past girls this is frustrating. She mentioned to me that happens sometimes and that it's not me. I dont think it's me cause she couldnt orgasm with the vibrator.Or is it my presence that makes her feel nervous? PLease help.
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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Mind_Body_Soul
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Dated a girl who was a chronic masturbator with a vibrator. She had trouble getting off with me. Eventually she started having trouble with her vibrator as well. Those things desensitize man, don't feel bad.
Also, keep in mind that orgasm is to a large part an emotional process.
Also, keep in mind that orgasm is to a large part an emotional process.
Vulpine
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Yep. There is nothing in nature that is similar to what a vibrator does (aside from hummingbird wings, good luck masturbating with one of those).
The other thing I noticed with the "hard to get off women" is that they ride, or rode, horses a lot. Smashing the c1it against the saddle a buh-zillion times doesn't make it any more sensitive.
The other thing I noticed with the "hard to get off women" is that they ride, or rode, horses a lot. Smashing the c1it against the saddle a buh-zillion times doesn't make it any more sensitive.
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Well, my experience has been different than that - for me the easiest to get off have been chicks who masturbate a lot. They know what works for them. One that had three vibes kept popping way before *I* was ready - like within just a few minutes. When she said "Ooooh don't stop" it was code for "Get your nut off because we're almost done and then you can stop".
Mind_Body_Soul
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I've had one of these as well, but she didn't use the mega vibrator that the other chic did. The 1st chic was using a huge muscle massager whereas teh second girl used normal sized rabbits etc.bigjohnson said:Well, my experience has been different than that - for me the easiest to get off have been chicks who masturbate a lot. They know what works for them. One that had three vibes kept popping way before *I* was ready - like within just a few minutes. When she said "Ooooh don't stop" it was code for "Get your nut off because we're almost done and then you can stop".
The first chic, hard as hell to get off. Second chic, would get off 3x or more during penetration. Easily best lay ever.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Never done one that used the mega-plug-in-the-wall **** basher. You could have a point there.