"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In need of some advice.

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Met this girl 35, real good looking and banging body. We started talking on the phone and that lead to some phone sex in which she had three orgasms using her vibrator. After a few days we met in a restaurant and then agreed to go to her place, I started with the foreplay to get the juices going and then some penetration it was already two hours and I had come three times and she had none, after this we met like four times and the same thing always happens , me trying to do anything possible to try to make her orgasm using all my techiniques,oral, 45 minutes of foreplay, fuqing her for hours,hitting the g-spot It also ocurred to me that she only cums with the vibrator, so we tried that and failed. This has never happened to me with any past girls this is frustrating. She mentioned to me that happens sometimes and that it's not me. I dont think it's me cause she couldnt orgasm with the vibrator.Or is it my presence that makes her feel nervous? PLease help.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dated a girl who was a chronic masturbator with a vibrator. She had trouble getting off with me. Eventually she started having trouble with her vibrator as well. Those things desensitize man, don't feel bad.

Also, keep in mind that orgasm is to a large part an emotional process.
 

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Yep. There is nothing in nature that is similar to what a vibrator does (aside from hummingbird wings, good luck masturbating with one of those).

The other thing I noticed with the "hard to get off women" is that they ride, or rode, horses a lot. Smashing the c1it against the saddle a buh-zillion times doesn't make it any more sensitive.
 

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Well, my experience has been different than that - for me the easiest to get off have been chicks who masturbate a lot. They know what works for them. One that had three vibes kept popping way before *I* was ready - like within just a few minutes. When she said "Ooooh don't stop" it was code for "Get your nut off because we're almost done and then you can stop".
 

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bigjohnson said:
Well, my experience has been different than that - for me the easiest to get off have been chicks who masturbate a lot. They know what works for them. One that had three vibes kept popping way before *I* was ready - like within just a few minutes. When she said "Ooooh don't stop" it was code for "Get your nut off because we're almost done and then you can stop".
I've had one of these as well, but she didn't use the mega vibrator that the other chic did. The 1st chic was using a huge muscle massager whereas teh second girl used normal sized rabbits etc.

The first chic, hard as hell to get off. Second chic, would get off 3x or more during penetration. Easily best lay ever.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Never done one that used the mega-plug-in-the-wall **** basher. You could have a point there.
 
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