Yo so I need a really dope good morning text to send to a chick. One that says I'm not trying to just be friends but at the same time not going overboard becuase I plan on ending the convo shortly after leaving her in mystery about me before our date this weekend. What can you guys come up with?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
In need of a bomb ass text
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TheException
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Forcing any sort of "good morning" text is a bad idea.
I cant say its a bad idea in general because I have done it myself......but it was never forced, and never with a "potential" plate. I usually reserve these type of "rapport texts" for LTRs. I would not send one if I were you in your situation.
I cant say its a bad idea in general because I have done it myself......but it was never forced, and never with a "potential" plate. I usually reserve these type of "rapport texts" for LTRs. I would not send one if I were you in your situation.
TheMonkeyKing
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Agreed with these lads.
The further along in the process I go, the more I just use electronic comms (even text) as logistical arrangement-making.
As I've (previously) said about not talking on the phone/facebooking/twittering/messenger, you are adding mystery by not being in constant contact like every other beta purse-holder. A 'good morning' text particularly seems a bit fruitless. Don't bother, seriously.
Face-face contact is the only contact that is really going to raise your profile. Full stop.
The further along in the process I go, the more I just use electronic comms (even text) as logistical arrangement-making.
As I've (previously) said about not talking on the phone/facebooking/twittering/messenger, you are adding mystery by not being in constant contact like every other beta purse-holder. A 'good morning' text particularly seems a bit fruitless. Don't bother, seriously.
Face-face contact is the only contact that is really going to raise your profile. Full stop.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Harry Wilmington
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You've already scheduled a date with this girl? Do yourself a favor, then, and do NOT send her a text. Don't even try contacting her or having communication with her again until the date. Contrary to popular belief, it's better to stop communication once you get the date than it is to try and continue talking with her leading up to the date. Let her spend the time you'd spend texting her thinking about you instead, and how great the date is going to be. As evidence has shown on these boards, sending a text prior to the agreed upon date can have one of the following results:
1. You send her a text, she doesn't respond. You start getting paranoid about what her lack of response means, and you now wonder if this means she even wants to go on the date anymore.
2. You send her a text, and she responds. You end up in an unplanned 2-hour texting conversation, during which you joke or say something that's taken the wrong way. She gets upset, and flakes on the date.
3. You send her a good morning text that sounds sappy or lame, and she shows it to her girlfriends. "This is the guy I'm going to meet up with this weekend," she says to them. "Ugh," says her hating girlfriends, "are you sure? His text to you was so lame." Now she starts having second thoughts about seeing you (I know it seems like a fake scenario, but I've seen this happen before)
Bottom line: once you get the date, there's no need to do things to help convince her that she shouldn't see you. So, again, I'd recommend NOT sending her anything. Now, if she hits you up for some reason it's okay to respond (though you don't want to get into a full-on convo if you can avoid it), but save as much of your convo with her for the date as possible. Good luck!
1. You send her a text, she doesn't respond. You start getting paranoid about what her lack of response means, and you now wonder if this means she even wants to go on the date anymore.
2. You send her a text, and she responds. You end up in an unplanned 2-hour texting conversation, during which you joke or say something that's taken the wrong way. She gets upset, and flakes on the date.
3. You send her a good morning text that sounds sappy or lame, and she shows it to her girlfriends. "This is the guy I'm going to meet up with this weekend," she says to them. "Ugh," says her hating girlfriends, "are you sure? His text to you was so lame." Now she starts having second thoughts about seeing you (I know it seems like a fake scenario, but I've seen this happen before)
Bottom line: once you get the date, there's no need to do things to help convince her that she shouldn't see you. So, again, I'd recommend NOT sending her anything. Now, if she hits you up for some reason it's okay to respond (though you don't want to get into a full-on convo if you can avoid it), but save as much of your convo with her for the date as possible. Good luck!