I tell myself everyday how big of a boss I am because I've come a long way from being in the county. But that's water under the bridge though. I tell myself good job I'll say ima fvuckin boss I may not always believe what I say in my head but. I tell myself these things.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
in my mind...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Keep doing it. Believe and you shall be. I am the prize.
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By making this post you seem like you doubt this belief. By saying it all the time to yourself is meaningless if you don't actually believe it.
I do doubt it sometimes... But when my day goes really well or I do something decent I'm like "your a boss" it mostly has to do with the job I do. Any day I make it home alive I feel good. By making this post I was just summing up what goes through my head because sometimes I think I'm crazy...