"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bigwuz

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I tell myself everyday how big of a boss I am because I've come a long way from being in the county. But that's water under the bridge though. I tell myself good job I'll say ima fvuckin boss I may not always believe what I say in my head but. I tell myself these things.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Keep doing it. Believe and you shall be. I am the prize.
 

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By making this post you seem like you doubt this belief. By saying it all the time to yourself is meaningless if you don't actually believe it.
 

bigwuz

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By making this post you seem like you doubt this belief. By saying it all the time to yourself is meaningless if you don't actually believe it.
I do doubt it sometimes... But when my day goes really well or I do something decent I'm like "your a boss" it mostly has to do with the job I do. Any day I make it home alive I feel good. By making this post I was just summing up what goes through my head because sometimes I think I'm crazy...
 
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