I tell myself everyday how big of a boss I am because I've come a long way from being in the county. But that's water under the bridge though. I tell myself good job I'll say ima fvuckin boss I may not always believe what I say in my head but. I tell myself these things.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
in my mind...
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Keep doing it. Believe and you shall be. I am the prize.
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By making this post you seem like you doubt this belief. By saying it all the time to yourself is meaningless if you don't actually believe it.
I do doubt it sometimes... But when my day goes really well or I do something decent I'm like "your a boss" it mostly has to do with the job I do. Any day I make it home alive I feel good. By making this post I was just summing up what goes through my head because sometimes I think I'm crazy...