"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In my ****ing head all the time

diskobox

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I do not have any social skills , a little shy, afraid to make a move, in my head all the time, i don't know what to do when people are talking in groups & i'm standing alone on my own don't know what to do, don't know what to talk after the hi and a little conversation, i'm not certain about things most of the time, most of all i'm ****ing afraid to change my personality/character, and how do i grow some ****ing balls in real life?!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I feel your pain Bro. Do you have good and bad days where on down days your mind races constantly and up days you couldn't think hard even if you tried. My advice to you is to just talk to people (girls included) and not worry bout the pick up. Girls will give obvious signs if interested. Do this until you feel ready to go all out sarging
 

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And when I say talk to anybody I mean talk to EVERYONE you can. hell go to best buy and have a convo with the hot retail associate. She has to talk to you. haha
 

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It's like when i'm in the mood i'm unstoppable i'm the torpedo, when i'm that mindset talking to girls is easy and I don't think much(I've gotten into there high performing states lately - unstoppable) but when i'm not its normal and low! I'll try!
 
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