"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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In my ****ing head all the time

diskobox

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I do not have any social skills , a little shy, afraid to make a move, in my head all the time, i don't know what to do when people are talking in groups & i'm standing alone on my own don't know what to do, don't know what to talk after the hi and a little conversation, i'm not certain about things most of the time, most of all i'm ****ing afraid to change my personality/character, and how do i grow some ****ing balls in real life?!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I feel your pain Bro. Do you have good and bad days where on down days your mind races constantly and up days you couldn't think hard even if you tried. My advice to you is to just talk to people (girls included) and not worry bout the pick up. Girls will give obvious signs if interested. Do this until you feel ready to go all out sarging
 

ricososuave

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And when I say talk to anybody I mean talk to EVERYONE you can. hell go to best buy and have a convo with the hot retail associate. She has to talk to you. haha
 

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It's like when i'm in the mood i'm unstoppable i'm the torpedo, when i'm that mindset talking to girls is easy and I don't think much(I've gotten into there high performing states lately - unstoppable) but when i'm not its normal and low! I'll try!
 
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