"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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In my ****ing head all the time

diskobox

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I do not have any social skills , a little shy, afraid to make a move, in my head all the time, i don't know what to do when people are talking in groups & i'm standing alone on my own don't know what to do, don't know what to talk after the hi and a little conversation, i'm not certain about things most of the time, most of all i'm ****ing afraid to change my personality/character, and how do i grow some ****ing balls in real life?!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I feel your pain Bro. Do you have good and bad days where on down days your mind races constantly and up days you couldn't think hard even if you tried. My advice to you is to just talk to people (girls included) and not worry bout the pick up. Girls will give obvious signs if interested. Do this until you feel ready to go all out sarging
 

ricososuave

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And when I say talk to anybody I mean talk to EVERYONE you can. hell go to best buy and have a convo with the hot retail associate. She has to talk to you. haha
 

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It's like when i'm in the mood i'm unstoppable i'm the torpedo, when i'm that mindset talking to girls is easy and I don't think much(I've gotten into there high performing states lately - unstoppable) but when i'm not its normal and low! I'll try!
 
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