"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In most cases, would this be a good or bad thing.

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pvf94

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Decipher this convo that was on instant messenger.

(Reggi = our inside joke)

her (12:21:19 AM): reggi!
me (12:21:23 AM): yowww
her (12:21:30 AM): sry i didnt call you
her(12:21:33 AM): todays been a busy day
me (12:22:27 AM): No biggy
me (12:22:30 AM): gotta do what u gotta do
her (12:22:48 AM): :[ reggi, i want a boyfriend.
me (12:23:07 AM): im single? haha
her (12:23:48 AM): yeah i know.
me (12:24:43 AM): So why are you telling me this random fact
me (12:24:43 AM): lol
her (12:24:50 AM): idk :-(
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DamHE

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she's bored and doesn't like you just in a friendly way that's why she trusted telling you something like that

don't worry you're only 13 plenty of time left.
 
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Makro2323

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How long have you known this girl for? What kind of relationship do you currently have with her? Would you say you're in the friends zone? I think the conversation you posted could be interpreted in two different ways - either she is telling you as a friend that she is desperate for a boyfriend (ie. you are definitely not an option, more like a shoulder to cry on), or she is in fact hinting that she may want to get together with you. It's interesting that when you suggest to her you're single she replys with 'I know'. Although to be honest you probably shouldn't have mentioned that you were single in the first place.
 
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She does not want you.

You should not have said 'I am single'
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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B4IFURU18?

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Who ****ing cares?

Find out for yourself instead of trying to decipher a harmless online convo..
 
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The Juan and only

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Not a good situ. NickBe is right.
 
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Makro2323

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Yeah, saying you were single was definitely a bad move. The point is to always keep the girl guessing, ie. always have an air of mystery around you. If you just come out and say 'I'm single' then it reeks of desperation.
 
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Charm&Style

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dood go make a move on her, she's horny "i want a boyfriend" translates to "cob webs are forming on my vagina, plz fvck me"

and if she denies you, then move on, you're just seen as friend to her
 
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