"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In most cases, would this be a good or bad thing.

pvf94

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Decipher this convo that was on instant messenger.

(Reggi = our inside joke)

her (12:21:19 AM): reggi!
me (12:21:23 AM): yowww
her (12:21:30 AM): sry i didnt call you
her(12:21:33 AM): todays been a busy day
me (12:22:27 AM): No biggy
me (12:22:30 AM): gotta do what u gotta do
her (12:22:48 AM): :[ reggi, i want a boyfriend.
me (12:23:07 AM): im single? haha
her (12:23:48 AM): yeah i know.
me (12:24:43 AM): So why are you telling me this random fact
me (12:24:43 AM): lol
her (12:24:50 AM): idk :-(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DamHE

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she's bored and doesn't like you just in a friendly way that's why she trusted telling you something like that

don't worry you're only 13 plenty of time left.
 

Makro2323

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How long have you known this girl for? What kind of relationship do you currently have with her? Would you say you're in the friends zone? I think the conversation you posted could be interpreted in two different ways - either she is telling you as a friend that she is desperate for a boyfriend (ie. you are definitely not an option, more like a shoulder to cry on), or she is in fact hinting that she may want to get together with you. It's interesting that when you suggest to her you're single she replys with 'I know'. Although to be honest you probably shouldn't have mentioned that you were single in the first place.
 

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She does not want you.

You should not have said 'I am single'
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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B4IFURU18?

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Who ****ing cares?

Find out for yourself instead of trying to decipher a harmless online convo..
 

The Juan and only

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Not a good situ. NickBe is right.
 

Makro2323

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Yeah, saying you were single was definitely a bad move. The point is to always keep the girl guessing, ie. always have an air of mystery around you. If you just come out and say 'I'm single' then it reeks of desperation.
 

Charm&Style

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dood go make a move on her, she's horny "i want a boyfriend" translates to "cob webs are forming on my vagina, plz fvck me"

and if she denies you, then move on, you're just seen as friend to her
 
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