"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In most cases, would this be a good or bad thing.

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pvf94

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Decipher this convo that was on instant messenger.

(Reggi = our inside joke)

her (12:21:19 AM): reggi!
me (12:21:23 AM): yowww
her (12:21:30 AM): sry i didnt call you
her(12:21:33 AM): todays been a busy day
me (12:22:27 AM): No biggy
me (12:22:30 AM): gotta do what u gotta do
her (12:22:48 AM): :[ reggi, i want a boyfriend.
me (12:23:07 AM): im single? haha
her (12:23:48 AM): yeah i know.
me (12:24:43 AM): So why are you telling me this random fact
me (12:24:43 AM): lol
her (12:24:50 AM): idk :-(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she's bored and doesn't like you just in a friendly way that's why she trusted telling you something like that

don't worry you're only 13 plenty of time left.
 
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How long have you known this girl for? What kind of relationship do you currently have with her? Would you say you're in the friends zone? I think the conversation you posted could be interpreted in two different ways - either she is telling you as a friend that she is desperate for a boyfriend (ie. you are definitely not an option, more like a shoulder to cry on), or she is in fact hinting that she may want to get together with you. It's interesting that when you suggest to her you're single she replys with 'I know'. Although to be honest you probably shouldn't have mentioned that you were single in the first place.
 
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She does not want you.

You should not have said 'I am single'
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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B4IFURU18?

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Who ****ing cares?

Find out for yourself instead of trying to decipher a harmless online convo..
 
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The Juan and only

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Not a good situ. NickBe is right.
 
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Yeah, saying you were single was definitely a bad move. The point is to always keep the girl guessing, ie. always have an air of mystery around you. If you just come out and say 'I'm single' then it reeks of desperation.
 
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Charm&Style

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dood go make a move on her, she's horny "i want a boyfriend" translates to "cob webs are forming on my vagina, plz fvck me"

and if she denies you, then move on, you're just seen as friend to her
 
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