“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am wanting to start an in depth study group/online discussion on this thread and through messaging each other on Sosuave. This study will be for one year: from October 6, 2025 until October 6, 2026. We will read the Book of Pook over and over and discuss it.

If you're interested, reply to this thread or message me on SoSuave! As long as we're still studying the Book of Pook you can join this group; then from October 6, 2026 until October 6, 2027 we will be studying some other book on game/PUA Book (your suggestions are appreciated)!
 

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You've been posting a lot of random questions and thoughts lately.

What's actually your goal here?
@BPH With women: To get laid more, or better yet, get in a LTR.

With this group: to master the lessons in the Book of Pook, and then other game/PUA books. I think that if the woman I'm with knows that I have other options/sees me as a catch, she will be more loyal to me in a LTR.
 

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@BPH With women: To get laid more, or better yet, get in a LTR.

With this group: to master the lessons in the Book of Pook, and then other game/PUA books. I think that if the woman I'm with knows that I have other options/sees me as a catch, she will be more loyal to me in a LTR.
Didn't you also say that you're in your 60s and pursuing women in their 20s?
 

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how will you do it ? maybe just start at the beginning and take one point at a time and make a thread for it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Didn't you also say that you're in your 60s and pursuing women in their 20s?
@BPH Yes, ideally I can get with a woman that young, but if that turns out to be unrealistic, I'll adjust my goals/expectations.
 

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how will you do it ? maybe just start at the beginning and take one point at a time and make a thread for it.
@plumber I was thinking that we all would read it many times and ask each other any questions on it we might have, and mention any key insights.
 

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@BPH Yes, ideally I can get with a woman that young, but if that turns out to be unrealistic, I'll adjust my goals/expectations.
i see this all the time. it can be done. almost always its money for youth. if not money and old, then not so easy.
 

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@plumber I was thinking that we all would read it many times and ask each other any questions on it we might have, and mention any key insights.
its a good idea. just start doing it and then ask the questions as a new thread. you can reference the text in the book. then others can comment and or go read it. others might just join in after its already started.
 

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its a good idea. just start doing it and then ask the questions as a new thread. you can reference the text in the book. then others can comment and or go read it. others might just join in after its already started.
@plumber Awesome! I'll do that! Thank you!
 

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i see this all the time. it can be done. almost always its money for youth. if not money and old, then not so easy.
@davidsonj73 this is going to be your problem.

At 60+ the women in their 20s will neither see you as a fun option in the short-term, nor a realistic option in the long-term. You will almost exclusively be attracting women who will be with you for the money, if at all.

You can read The Book of Pook all you want, but you're not going to be able to overcome basic attraction and biology. If you have a ton of money, that won't be as much of a problem. But if you don't, then that year would be better spent making some.

I'd predict you'll have to make some significant adjustments to your expectations.
 

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@davidsonj73 this is going to be your problem.

At 60+ the women in their 20s will neither see you as a fun option in the short-term, nor a realistic option in the long-term. You will almost exclusively be attracting women who will be with you for the money, if at all.

You can read The Book of Pook all you want, but you're not going to be able to overcome basic attraction and biology. If you have a ton of money, that won't be as much of a problem. But if you don't, then that year would be better spent making some.

I'd predict you'll have to make some significant adjustments to your expectations.
@BPH What age range do you think is realistic (as far as women who don't just want me for my money)? Maybe this is where the half your age plus 7 comes in?
 

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You've been posting a lot of random questions and thoughts lately.

What's actually your goal here?
Do you even need to ask? lol. You've been on SS long enough to be able to spot an obvious troll.
 

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Do you even need to ask? lol. You've been on SS long enough to be able to spot an obvious troll.
I'd say it's more likely that he's clueless than a troll, but I give people the benefit of the doubt until I have reason not to.

@BPH What age range do you think is realistic (as far as women who don't just want me for my money)? Maybe this is where the half your age plus 7 comes in?
I'd probably estimate you'll have the best success with women in their late 30s into their early 40s. Most of these women are past their prime, but also unwilling to settle down. They'll have fewer options, and you'll likely have less competition.

I know that doesn't sound great, but it would be as if somebody my mom's age were trying to date me...it's just really not gonna happen, unless you look like George Clooney - or make as much money.
 

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@BPH I'm definitely not a troll. I'm OK with late 30s and early 40s. But, doesn't game come into play with women of any age?
 

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@BPH Yes, ideally I can get with a woman that young, but if that turns out to be unrealistic, I'll adjust my goals/expectations.
I think you may be suffering from some sort of delusional issues with some of the random questions and posts you have been posting reecently
 

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@BPH I'm definitely not a troll. I'm OK with late 30s and early 40s. But, doesn't game come into play with women of any age?
Game comes into play by capitalizing on interest; it's not so much about CREATING it. In essence, it is simply "social awareness".

I run into plenty of resistance related to my age when I approach the women you're after - and I'm only 31. Women, generally, are going to be attracted to men who can provide them with something. At your age, you're only really going to be able to compete by way of resources (money).

Regardless of what I, or anybody else, thinks of your goals, sitting and reading Pook for a year won't move you any closer to them.
 

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Game comes into play by capitalizing on interest; it's not so much about CREATING it. In essence, it is simply "social awareness".

I run into plenty of resistance related to my age when I approach the women you're after - and I'm only 31. Women, generally, are going to be attracted to men who can provide them with something. At your age, you're only really going to be able to compete by way of resources (money).

Regardless of what I, or anybody else, thinks of your goals, sitting and reading Pook for a year won't move you any closer to them.
true. but it doesn't hurt to get the info burned in. at the same time do other stuff.
 

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I'd say it's more likely that he's clueless than a troll, but I give people the benefit of the doubt until I have reason not to.



I'd probably estimate you'll have the best success with women in their late 30s into their early 40s. Most of these women are past their prime, but also unwilling to settle down. They'll have fewer options, and you'll likely have less competition.

I know that doesn't sound great, but it would be as if somebody my mom's age were trying to date me...it's just really not gonna happen, unless you look like George Clooney - or make as much money.
OP is struggling to get women his own age for reasons that should be obvious if you read his posts, what makes you think he is going to get a woman 30 years younger?

If you are a top tier male in that age group then sure, you can likely do that. But OP is not close to that, IMO.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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