"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In awe. Very, very impressed.

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Just in awe at the discipline of Jordan Peterson.
He wrote for 3 hours every day for 15 years preparing himself for his first book 'Maps of Meaning'.

To focus for so long. He did'nt have one day. All those distractions he pushed away. Did'nt have one day where he his wife and kids said, let's have a day out. He was obsessed with totalatarism and the individual.

Not one full day with his loved ones. 3 hours EVERY DAY for FIFTEEN YEARS!!!

Its like Napolean Hill says in his book 'think and grow rich' " if you cannot give 100% to to what i am preaching in this book, then stop reading now" i stopped reading - because i know i cannot, i like physical activity to much, fresh air walks.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just in awe at the discipline of Jordan Peterson.
He wrote for 3 hours every day for 15 years preparing himself for his first book 'Maps of Meaning'.

To focus for so long. He did'nt have one day. All those distractions he pushed away. Did'nt have one day where he his wife and kids said, let's have a day out. He was obsessed with totalatarism and the individual.

Not one full day with his loved ones. 3 hours EVERY DAY for FIFTEEN YEARS!!!

Its like Napolean Hill says in his book 'think and grow rich' " if you cannot give 100% to to what i am preaching in this book, then stop reading now" i stopped reading - because i know i cannot, i like physical activity to much, fresh air walks.
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