"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In an LTR but I miss sarging...Do you guys sarge then?

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I'm in a great LTR. This girls is awesome and the best of the doubledigit plus girls I've been with.

I do miss sarging though. I love to flirt. I feel like I've lost the edge there too.

Today after working out in the morning I saw a hottie I had eyed earlier in the gym. We walked out together, and I had nothing. Nothing until it was too late. I saw her gym bag and thought would have had an opener.

She had a fine ass. The one thing is she got into a huge SUV. Everytime I see a girl in one of those I kind of assume she's got a husband or a guy involved.

If I see her again, I won't miss the opportunity. Sarging is fun, I need to get back into it.

How many of you guys sarge alot even when in an LTR? I want to keep my skills fresh. Flirting can't hurt, although I know I might be prone to cheat if it came to that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah dude its very important when you are in a LTR to continue going out, flirting, having fun, ect. The main reason is because it the healthy thing to do, beleave it or not.

I think most of us have been where you are... we find a girl we think is great and forget about other chicks, having fun outside of the relationship, wrong move, continue the same as before.

So, get your arse back out there and flirt with some chicks make yourself feel good, have some fun again... as a result your LTR will benifit from it.
 
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the only difference between me now and when I had a GF is that I would put the breaks on at a certain point of the flirting.
 
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I've had a few nice convos here and there with girls I'm in a running group with. Somehow i never bring up the fact that I have a gf to them and they never mention boyfriends.

But I don't ask for #'s. I love the flirting still and hate when I don't sarge a girl. Guess it became kind of ingrained.

Will say this though. My gf gets pretty jealous when I talk to girls nowadays. She's a hottie, and I think it only really happens when I talk for some time iwth other girls, which she blames me being drunk for. She tells me I talk too much when I'm drunk, which is probably true!
 
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