"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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In an LTR but I miss sarging...Do you guys sarge then?

Ricky

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I'm in a great LTR. This girls is awesome and the best of the doubledigit plus girls I've been with.

I do miss sarging though. I love to flirt. I feel like I've lost the edge there too.

Today after working out in the morning I saw a hottie I had eyed earlier in the gym. We walked out together, and I had nothing. Nothing until it was too late. I saw her gym bag and thought would have had an opener.

She had a fine ass. The one thing is she got into a huge SUV. Everytime I see a girl in one of those I kind of assume she's got a husband or a guy involved.

If I see her again, I won't miss the opportunity. Sarging is fun, I need to get back into it.

How many of you guys sarge alot even when in an LTR? I want to keep my skills fresh. Flirting can't hurt, although I know I might be prone to cheat if it came to that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah dude its very important when you are in a LTR to continue going out, flirting, having fun, ect. The main reason is because it the healthy thing to do, beleave it or not.

I think most of us have been where you are... we find a girl we think is great and forget about other chicks, having fun outside of the relationship, wrong move, continue the same as before.

So, get your arse back out there and flirt with some chicks make yourself feel good, have some fun again... as a result your LTR will benifit from it.
 

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the only difference between me now and when I had a GF is that I would put the breaks on at a certain point of the flirting.
 

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I've had a few nice convos here and there with girls I'm in a running group with. Somehow i never bring up the fact that I have a gf to them and they never mention boyfriends.

But I don't ask for #'s. I love the flirting still and hate when I don't sarge a girl. Guess it became kind of ingrained.

Will say this though. My gf gets pretty jealous when I talk to girls nowadays. She's a hottie, and I think it only really happens when I talk for some time iwth other girls, which she blames me being drunk for. She tells me I talk too much when I'm drunk, which is probably true!
 
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