"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In an LTR but I miss sarging...Do you guys sarge then?

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I'm in a great LTR. This girls is awesome and the best of the doubledigit plus girls I've been with.

I do miss sarging though. I love to flirt. I feel like I've lost the edge there too.

Today after working out in the morning I saw a hottie I had eyed earlier in the gym. We walked out together, and I had nothing. Nothing until it was too late. I saw her gym bag and thought would have had an opener.

She had a fine ass. The one thing is she got into a huge SUV. Everytime I see a girl in one of those I kind of assume she's got a husband or a guy involved.

If I see her again, I won't miss the opportunity. Sarging is fun, I need to get back into it.

How many of you guys sarge alot even when in an LTR? I want to keep my skills fresh. Flirting can't hurt, although I know I might be prone to cheat if it came to that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah dude its very important when you are in a LTR to continue going out, flirting, having fun, ect. The main reason is because it the healthy thing to do, beleave it or not.

I think most of us have been where you are... we find a girl we think is great and forget about other chicks, having fun outside of the relationship, wrong move, continue the same as before.

So, get your arse back out there and flirt with some chicks make yourself feel good, have some fun again... as a result your LTR will benifit from it.
 
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the only difference between me now and when I had a GF is that I would put the breaks on at a certain point of the flirting.
 
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I've had a few nice convos here and there with girls I'm in a running group with. Somehow i never bring up the fact that I have a gf to them and they never mention boyfriends.

But I don't ask for #'s. I love the flirting still and hate when I don't sarge a girl. Guess it became kind of ingrained.

Will say this though. My gf gets pretty jealous when I talk to girls nowadays. She's a hottie, and I think it only really happens when I talk for some time iwth other girls, which she blames me being drunk for. She tells me I talk too much when I'm drunk, which is probably true!
 
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