“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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In an LTR but I miss sarging...Do you guys sarge then?

Ricky

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I'm in a great LTR. This girls is awesome and the best of the doubledigit plus girls I've been with.

I do miss sarging though. I love to flirt. I feel like I've lost the edge there too.

Today after working out in the morning I saw a hottie I had eyed earlier in the gym. We walked out together, and I had nothing. Nothing until it was too late. I saw her gym bag and thought would have had an opener.

She had a fine ass. The one thing is she got into a huge SUV. Everytime I see a girl in one of those I kind of assume she's got a husband or a guy involved.

If I see her again, I won't miss the opportunity. Sarging is fun, I need to get back into it.

How many of you guys sarge alot even when in an LTR? I want to keep my skills fresh. Flirting can't hurt, although I know I might be prone to cheat if it came to that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah dude its very important when you are in a LTR to continue going out, flirting, having fun, ect. The main reason is because it the healthy thing to do, beleave it or not.

I think most of us have been where you are... we find a girl we think is great and forget about other chicks, having fun outside of the relationship, wrong move, continue the same as before.

So, get your arse back out there and flirt with some chicks make yourself feel good, have some fun again... as a result your LTR will benifit from it.
 

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the only difference between me now and when I had a GF is that I would put the breaks on at a certain point of the flirting.
 

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I've had a few nice convos here and there with girls I'm in a running group with. Somehow i never bring up the fact that I have a gf to them and they never mention boyfriends.

But I don't ask for #'s. I love the flirting still and hate when I don't sarge a girl. Guess it became kind of ingrained.

Will say this though. My gf gets pretty jealous when I talk to girls nowadays. She's a hottie, and I think it only really happens when I talk for some time iwth other girls, which she blames me being drunk for. She tells me I talk too much when I'm drunk, which is probably true!
 
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