"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In an LTR, and another girl comes into the picture

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konmai

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I love my gf. We've been together a little over a year now. I don't know WTF is wrong with me. There was a girl in my class. We spoke very little. 7 months later, this girl contacts me and asks me to hang out. I can't stop thinking about her. While she seems nice, has goals and is highly attractive (9-10), I don't know this girl as much as I do my gf. Do you guys go through this? I'm pretty much going to cut her off. I just feel guilty as hell even thinking about this girl.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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handle

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Been there. Broke up with my girlfriend, ****ed the other girl, and got back together. In retrospect, kinda dumb.
 
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Strelok

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If you have the luck to stay with a girl that you like and that gave you no problem untill now it's completely pointless to lose her in order to get an other one that you had no chance to evaluate and that probably wants you just because she knows you're taken.

If she's really a 9-10 she's probably bored or the ego boost she gets from guys are no enough and want he supreme one of stealing some other woman's man.
Call me an oldie but no man needs that sh*t in his life.
And please leave the guilty thing,use the logic it works better.
 
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Ive had many such situations, and it seems many times that these girls just like breaking up good relationships. leave that **** alone unless you wanna be single. then you can tag it no problems.
 
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