"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In an LTR, and another girl comes into the picture

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I love my gf. We've been together a little over a year now. I don't know WTF is wrong with me. There was a girl in my class. We spoke very little. 7 months later, this girl contacts me and asks me to hang out. I can't stop thinking about her. While she seems nice, has goals and is highly attractive (9-10), I don't know this girl as much as I do my gf. Do you guys go through this? I'm pretty much going to cut her off. I just feel guilty as hell even thinking about this girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Been there. Broke up with my girlfriend, ****ed the other girl, and got back together. In retrospect, kinda dumb.
 
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If you have the luck to stay with a girl that you like and that gave you no problem untill now it's completely pointless to lose her in order to get an other one that you had no chance to evaluate and that probably wants you just because she knows you're taken.

If she's really a 9-10 she's probably bored or the ego boost she gets from guys are no enough and want he supreme one of stealing some other woman's man.
Call me an oldie but no man needs that sh*t in his life.
And please leave the guilty thing,use the logic it works better.
 
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Ive had many such situations, and it seems many times that these girls just like breaking up good relationships. leave that **** alone unless you wanna be single. then you can tag it no problems.
 
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