"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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In an LTR, and another girl comes into the picture

konmai

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I love my gf. We've been together a little over a year now. I don't know WTF is wrong with me. There was a girl in my class. We spoke very little. 7 months later, this girl contacts me and asks me to hang out. I can't stop thinking about her. While she seems nice, has goals and is highly attractive (9-10), I don't know this girl as much as I do my gf. Do you guys go through this? I'm pretty much going to cut her off. I just feel guilty as hell even thinking about this girl.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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handle

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Been there. Broke up with my girlfriend, ****ed the other girl, and got back together. In retrospect, kinda dumb.
 

Strelok

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If you have the luck to stay with a girl that you like and that gave you no problem untill now it's completely pointless to lose her in order to get an other one that you had no chance to evaluate and that probably wants you just because she knows you're taken.

If she's really a 9-10 she's probably bored or the ego boost she gets from guys are no enough and want he supreme one of stealing some other woman's man.
Call me an oldie but no man needs that sh*t in his life.
And please leave the guilty thing,use the logic it works better.
 

powpow

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Ive had many such situations, and it seems many times that these girls just like breaking up good relationships. leave that **** alone unless you wanna be single. then you can tag it no problems.
 
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