I love my gf. We've been together a little over a year now. I don't know WTF is wrong with me. There was a girl in my class. We spoke very little. 7 months later, this girl contacts me and asks me to hang out. I can't stop thinking about her. While she seems nice, has goals and is highly attractive (9-10), I don't know this girl as much as I do my gf. Do you guys go through this? I'm pretty much going to cut her off. I just feel guilty as hell even thinking about this girl.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
In an LTR, and another girl comes into the picture
- Thread starter konmai
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