"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In a rut .... keep getting rejected

HyperAnalyze

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You might give up, but you could be 99% there and never see the 1% of light at the end of the tunnel...

You must press on. You can do it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TooNice

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could try changing your method of approach... are u getting turned down in person or online....

In person females act diff. than they do if you try talking to them online (ie. facebook, instagram ect)
 

Cremasta

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Are you learning anything from these rejections?
Are you making any changes?

Hyperanalyze is quite correct, you could be almost there.
There are so many variables about your game, it might just take a slight change to one of them that makes all the difference.
- Where are you trying to pick up?
- Weekends or weekday?
- How do you dress?
- How much eye contact?
- Are you trying too hard to be funny?
- Are you going solo, or have a wingman?

The list is endless and a minor change to any one them might make all the difference.

Good luck!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Trump

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t510 said:
I pretty much never drink and am not a fan or bars. And between work and working out I don't have much free time. Any topics or advice
On where to meet someone?
Bro you can't ask for advice and then specify the things you don't want to hear.

If you keep getting rejected don't think its about meeting the right woman. You are doing something wrong. Enthusiasm, knowledge, creepiness, appearance, something is wrong and until you fix it, it will keep happening.
 

Maximus Rex

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Post a pic of yourself, your personal style might be wack as f*ck.
 

skinnyguy

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Actually, traveling somewhere for 5 days could be a great idea. It breaks you out of your rut, and if you go with someone you know, you'll really party it up and be out of your shell. You'll come back a new man.
 
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