HyperAnalyze
Don Juan
You might give up, but you could be 99% there and never see the 1% of light at the end of the tunnel...
You must press on. You can do it.
You must press on. You can do it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
In a rut .... keep getting rejected
- Thread starter t510
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LiveFreeX
Banned
or say, "fvck this noise"
and go to Thailand.
I went when I was 16, changed my entire world.
and go to Thailand.
I went when I was 16, changed my entire world.
JaegerPilot217
Master Don Juan
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Lower your standards, that's how I got laid the first time
Are you learning anything from these rejections?
Are you making any changes?
Hyperanalyze is quite correct, you could be almost there.
There are so many variables about your game, it might just take a slight change to one of them that makes all the difference.
- Where are you trying to pick up?
- Weekends or weekday?
- How do you dress?
- How much eye contact?
- Are you trying too hard to be funny?
- Are you going solo, or have a wingman?
The list is endless and a minor change to any one them might make all the difference.
Good luck!
Are you making any changes?
Hyperanalyze is quite correct, you could be almost there.
There are so many variables about your game, it might just take a slight change to one of them that makes all the difference.
- Where are you trying to pick up?
- Weekends or weekday?
- How do you dress?
- How much eye contact?
- Are you trying too hard to be funny?
- Are you going solo, or have a wingman?
The list is endless and a minor change to any one them might make all the difference.
Good luck!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bro you can't ask for advice and then specify the things you don't want to hear.t510 said:
If you keep getting rejected don't think its about meeting the right woman. You are doing something wrong. Enthusiasm, knowledge, creepiness, appearance, something is wrong and until you fix it, it will keep happening.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Post a pic of yourself, your personal style might be wack as f*ck.