HyperAnalyze
Don Juan
You might give up, but you could be 99% there and never see the 1% of light at the end of the tunnel...
You must press on. You can do it.
You must press on. You can do it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
In a rut .... keep getting rejected
- Thread starter t510
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LiveFreeX
Banned
or say, "fvck this noise"
and go to Thailand.
I went when I was 16, changed my entire world.
and go to Thailand.
I went when I was 16, changed my entire world.
JaegerPilot217
Master Don Juan
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Lower your standards, that's how I got laid the first time
Are you learning anything from these rejections?
Are you making any changes?
Hyperanalyze is quite correct, you could be almost there.
There are so many variables about your game, it might just take a slight change to one of them that makes all the difference.
- Where are you trying to pick up?
- Weekends or weekday?
- How do you dress?
- How much eye contact?
- Are you trying too hard to be funny?
- Are you going solo, or have a wingman?
The list is endless and a minor change to any one them might make all the difference.
Good luck!
Are you making any changes?
Hyperanalyze is quite correct, you could be almost there.
There are so many variables about your game, it might just take a slight change to one of them that makes all the difference.
- Where are you trying to pick up?
- Weekends or weekday?
- How do you dress?
- How much eye contact?
- Are you trying too hard to be funny?
- Are you going solo, or have a wingman?
The list is endless and a minor change to any one them might make all the difference.
Good luck!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bro you can't ask for advice and then specify the things you don't want to hear.t510 said:
If you keep getting rejected don't think its about meeting the right woman. You are doing something wrong. Enthusiasm, knowledge, creepiness, appearance, something is wrong and until you fix it, it will keep happening.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Post a pic of yourself, your personal style might be wack as f*ck.