"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In a rut .... keep getting rejected

HyperAnalyze

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You might give up, but you could be 99% there and never see the 1% of light at the end of the tunnel...

You must press on. You can do it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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could try changing your method of approach... are u getting turned down in person or online....

In person females act diff. than they do if you try talking to them online (ie. facebook, instagram ect)
 

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Are you learning anything from these rejections?
Are you making any changes?

Hyperanalyze is quite correct, you could be almost there.
There are so many variables about your game, it might just take a slight change to one of them that makes all the difference.
- Where are you trying to pick up?
- Weekends or weekday?
- How do you dress?
- How much eye contact?
- Are you trying too hard to be funny?
- Are you going solo, or have a wingman?

The list is endless and a minor change to any one them might make all the difference.

Good luck!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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t510 said:
I pretty much never drink and am not a fan or bars. And between work and working out I don't have much free time. Any topics or advice
On where to meet someone?
Bro you can't ask for advice and then specify the things you don't want to hear.

If you keep getting rejected don't think its about meeting the right woman. You are doing something wrong. Enthusiasm, knowledge, creepiness, appearance, something is wrong and until you fix it, it will keep happening.
 

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Post a pic of yourself, your personal style might be wack as f*ck.
 

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Actually, traveling somewhere for 5 days could be a great idea. It breaks you out of your rut, and if you go with someone you know, you'll really party it up and be out of your shell. You'll come back a new man.
 
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