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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In a LTR, do you tell your GF you love her?

The_Reaper

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I know it sounds AFC - but what I mean is, what is the best approach to this? I rarely say it to my girlfriend. I just hate the sound of it, like it goes against my nature.

I did a search and could not find this topic.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bassik

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if it goes against you then if you say it it will sound incincere and that will cause more problems then it will fix.
instead you should show her through your actions.
if you do love her then this will come natrually.
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DJinTraining06

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The_Reaper said:
I know it sounds AFC - but what I mean is, what is the best approach to this? I rarely say it to my girlfriend. I just hate the sound of it, like it goes against my nature.

I did a search and could not find this topic.

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See if shell say it first, thats what i did with my last 2 gf's and it worked well. If they dont say it after a long time, i dont see why its bad to say it first. Alot of guys on this site say not to, but then isnt that just bein insecure. A real man does what he wants right?
 
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