"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In a LTR, do you tell your GF you love her?

The_Reaper

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I know it sounds AFC - but what I mean is, what is the best approach to this? I rarely say it to my girlfriend. I just hate the sound of it, like it goes against my nature.

I did a search and could not find this topic.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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if it goes against you then if you say it it will sound incincere and that will cause more problems then it will fix.
instead you should show her through your actions.
if you do love her then this will come natrually.
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DJinTraining06

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The_Reaper said:
I know it sounds AFC - but what I mean is, what is the best approach to this? I rarely say it to my girlfriend. I just hate the sound of it, like it goes against my nature.

I did a search and could not find this topic.

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See if shell say it first, thats what i did with my last 2 gf's and it worked well. If they dont say it after a long time, i dont see why its bad to say it first. Alot of guys on this site say not to, but then isnt that just bein insecure. A real man does what he wants right?
 
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