"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In a LTR, do you tell your GF you love her?

The_Reaper

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I know it sounds AFC - but what I mean is, what is the best approach to this? I rarely say it to my girlfriend. I just hate the sound of it, like it goes against my nature.

I did a search and could not find this topic.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if it goes against you then if you say it it will sound incincere and that will cause more problems then it will fix.
instead you should show her through your actions.
if you do love her then this will come natrually.
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DJinTraining06

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The_Reaper said:
I know it sounds AFC - but what I mean is, what is the best approach to this? I rarely say it to my girlfriend. I just hate the sound of it, like it goes against my nature.

I did a search and could not find this topic.

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See if shell say it first, thats what i did with my last 2 gf's and it worked well. If they dont say it after a long time, i dont see why its bad to say it first. Alot of guys on this site say not to, but then isnt that just bein insecure. A real man does what he wants right?
 
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