"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In a LTR, do you tell your GF you love her?

The_Reaper

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I know it sounds AFC - but what I mean is, what is the best approach to this? I rarely say it to my girlfriend. I just hate the sound of it, like it goes against my nature.

I did a search and could not find this topic.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bassik

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if it goes against you then if you say it it will sound incincere and that will cause more problems then it will fix.
instead you should show her through your actions.
if you do love her then this will come natrually.
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DJinTraining06

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The_Reaper said:
I know it sounds AFC - but what I mean is, what is the best approach to this? I rarely say it to my girlfriend. I just hate the sound of it, like it goes against my nature.

I did a search and could not find this topic.

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See if shell say it first, thats what i did with my last 2 gf's and it worked well. If they dont say it after a long time, i dont see why its bad to say it first. Alot of guys on this site say not to, but then isnt that just bein insecure. A real man does what he wants right?
 
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