"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In a little Dilema

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I dont post often.. but I kinda need an opinion on this.

So ive met a girl at Uni recently and gotten to know her fairly well and i guess you can call us friends.

Last week i felt that this relationship was leading somewhere when shee asked me to join her for a tutorial and.. afte thet tutorial she invited me to her 18th party.

Then on tuesday before our test we had probly the second actual lenghty conversation and it went SOOOOOOOOO well and we clicked.. However I found out that she is already in a relationship!!

Quite frankly.. ive never met a girl who is more intelligent, cultured and interesting.

But anyways...the fact that she was already seeing someone did not really bother me so much as im pretty much immune to this sorta situations as its happend countless times.

So OK my observations is that.. I dont think she really knows the full extent of how much I like her but she has a slight hunch that I do like her... as she told me that initially she couldnt figure out why I was so 'friendly and nice to her" of if i had a motive...

Now....im kinda in a position of.. Do i wanna keep her as a friend.. OR... Should I slowly turn on the charm and fight my way through and make her mine?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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who needs friends? like chris rock said. guys dont have girl friends. girl friends are just girls you havent banged yet. if you want it go after it...do you care if shes in a relationship...she could be testing you...seeing how interested you are...i would back off a lil bit
 
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oh nah she is in a relationship.. seen pictures.. but yeah.. her party is next week. 20-30 ish people..then its off to the clubs after that..

I know for a fact that if she wasnt in a relationship.. I would have had her already hands down!

So how do i send a subliminal message that im kinda after her?
 
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you dont...she already knows i promise...but if she doesnt...what will you do that will make her not be in a relationship anymore? and if she did leave the other dude, why would you trust her?
 
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I ahve a slight feeling he's not actually in the country.. and it might be long distance maybe.... As she spent a year in Italy..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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