"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you just talk casually to a girl..eventually...you have to end it, but how can you make her more interested in you after the conversation < especially when you began the conversation when you and her were interested >

Let's think
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bodylanguage is importanat,where do you steer your convo's? Do you try to close or get her int a full blown emotional menstration?

Depends on your style,the girl,etc.. Post an ex. and i'll guide you through it.
 

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Search the forums, I remember there used to be a bunch of topics on convo's.
 

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Well, I first expose myself as in showing who I am and I'm a type of person who has a lot of potential......like ironic humor, intelligence, and understanding and much more.

i do the exposure in front of her and she becomes convinced ( the type of girl i like is good personality and u know...all that other stuff)

I'll give her eye contact and likely she'll be interested and I'll then talk to her...and blah blah blah...

<last time I used this technique on a girl, she was sexually interested as defined in Senor Finger's Weapons of Mass Seduction?>

I'm not really good at defining body language, but I know some and then there is the question of making her want you more...
 

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Bodylanguage is importnat you don't have to yammer about everyting when your intention show.

Some tips:try to make strong eye-contact when shes the one talking.When you she trynna open get closer to her,make sure she feels your paying attnetion.

I know what your saying about showing her your peronality I do it when i'm with my freinds we just start talking and many times they get involved(interrupt) or she already has something to say when i approach her.

^^So that's good too.But try to be direct and blunt with ,most girls espceially if you only want to bag it.It will feel weird at first in the sense you might get bicthed out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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