"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you just talk casually to a girl..eventually...you have to end it, but how can you make her more interested in you after the conversation < especially when you began the conversation when you and her were interested >

Let's think
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bodylanguage is importanat,where do you steer your convo's? Do you try to close or get her int a full blown emotional menstration?

Depends on your style,the girl,etc.. Post an ex. and i'll guide you through it.
 

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Search the forums, I remember there used to be a bunch of topics on convo's.
 

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Well, I first expose myself as in showing who I am and I'm a type of person who has a lot of potential......like ironic humor, intelligence, and understanding and much more.

i do the exposure in front of her and she becomes convinced ( the type of girl i like is good personality and u know...all that other stuff)

I'll give her eye contact and likely she'll be interested and I'll then talk to her...and blah blah blah...

<last time I used this technique on a girl, she was sexually interested as defined in Senor Finger's Weapons of Mass Seduction?>

I'm not really good at defining body language, but I know some and then there is the question of making her want you more...
 

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Bodylanguage is importnat you don't have to yammer about everyting when your intention show.

Some tips:try to make strong eye-contact when shes the one talking.When you she trynna open get closer to her,make sure she feels your paying attnetion.

I know what your saying about showing her your peronality I do it when i'm with my freinds we just start talking and many times they get involved(interrupt) or she already has something to say when i approach her.

^^So that's good too.But try to be direct and blunt with ,most girls espceially if you only want to bag it.It will feel weird at first in the sense you might get bicthed out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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