"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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defiancy

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If you just talk casually to a girl..eventually...you have to end it, but how can you make her more interested in you after the conversation < especially when you began the conversation when you and her were interested >

Let's think
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bodylanguage is importanat,where do you steer your convo's? Do you try to close or get her int a full blown emotional menstration?

Depends on your style,the girl,etc.. Post an ex. and i'll guide you through it.
 

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Search the forums, I remember there used to be a bunch of topics on convo's.
 

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Well, I first expose myself as in showing who I am and I'm a type of person who has a lot of potential......like ironic humor, intelligence, and understanding and much more.

i do the exposure in front of her and she becomes convinced ( the type of girl i like is good personality and u know...all that other stuff)

I'll give her eye contact and likely she'll be interested and I'll then talk to her...and blah blah blah...

<last time I used this technique on a girl, she was sexually interested as defined in Senor Finger's Weapons of Mass Seduction?>

I'm not really good at defining body language, but I know some and then there is the question of making her want you more...
 

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Bodylanguage is importnat you don't have to yammer about everyting when your intention show.

Some tips:try to make strong eye-contact when shes the one talking.When you she trynna open get closer to her,make sure she feels your paying attnetion.

I know what your saying about showing her your peronality I do it when i'm with my freinds we just start talking and many times they get involved(interrupt) or she already has something to say when i approach her.

^^So that's good too.But try to be direct and blunt with ,most girls espceially if you only want to bag it.It will feel weird at first in the sense you might get bicthed out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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