"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Improvement plan?

Magnatolia

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Hey all,

I'm curious. Those of you that have gone from shy and bad with women to confident and good (inner game though), what did you actually do to overcome your fear and end up where you are now?

Just want to get some ideas on what to do to improve myself, especially when relating to women.

Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dont know if this helps. But with me it just poped into my head. "im not gonna be like this anymore". Just started to think that i dident care if things worked out with girls i hit on. And after some doing it came natural to think like that. Motivat your self. And dont think that much of what you are gonna do if you met a girl. keep calm :)
 

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Sansj said:
Dont know if this helps. But with me it just poped into my head. "im not gonna be like this anymore".
Yep, fed up with the old reality.
Just started to think that i dident care if things worked out with girls i hit on.
Y,Let go of the outcome.
And after some doing it came natural to think like that.
Practice & practice.

The fastest way is to take your emotions & beliefs. Analise & isolate them and destroy them one by one. There are many methods to destroy them. This combined with practice & practice will move you the most in the direction that you want.
 
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