"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Improvement plan?

Magnatolia

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Hey all,

I'm curious. Those of you that have gone from shy and bad with women to confident and good (inner game though), what did you actually do to overcome your fear and end up where you are now?

Just want to get some ideas on what to do to improve myself, especially when relating to women.

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dont know if this helps. But with me it just poped into my head. "im not gonna be like this anymore". Just started to think that i dident care if things worked out with girls i hit on. And after some doing it came natural to think like that. Motivat your self. And dont think that much of what you are gonna do if you met a girl. keep calm :)
 

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Sansj said:
Dont know if this helps. But with me it just poped into my head. "im not gonna be like this anymore".
Yep, fed up with the old reality.
Just started to think that i dident care if things worked out with girls i hit on.
Y,Let go of the outcome.
And after some doing it came natural to think like that.
Practice & practice.

The fastest way is to take your emotions & beliefs. Analise & isolate them and destroy them one by one. There are many methods to destroy them. This combined with practice & practice will move you the most in the direction that you want.
 
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