mrgoodstuff
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Found this youtube:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Improvement in your own life can anger others?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
good find, thanks
Don't hate the haters, understand them to love them.
Their cognitive dissonance is your own light shining through. Understand them.
Suave88
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All the fvcking time.........and way back before the great flood.....look at how Cain fixed Abel.
Great Canelo Alvarez footage and message. They are bad, judgemental, narcissistic and are quick to cut you down. Be careful, as they are family AND friends, not just strangers or mere acquaintances pulling this fvcksh!t.
mrgoodstuff
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Once it starts it never ends. They work to reduce your improvements in effectiveness gained from your adjustments and growth. Identify who they are, make a note of it,, dont ever expect them to change. People have been killed behind becoming more successful or a more stand-up person.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah this is no joke. Lately I've been mentioning to family and relatives that I'm eligible for my first retirement in 12 years and they give me PUSHBACK. Unbelievable. They've seen me struggle for a decade and judged me harshly, turned away, etc. Then when it comes time to leave, or even threaten to leave and go do what I NEED to do next on my life checklist, they start caring. Seen it from senior enlisted military leadership and now family or friends. It does not fkn end. Worse is if they are all set or retired and doing this to you. Time to keep my moves primarily silent here on out. Not just the bizarre individuals I encounter in public (where it is now critical to blend in and not argue), but those I know in private.
mrgoodstuff
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Completely silent. The world is how it is.
mrgoodstuff
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AureliusMaximus
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It is indeed not an easy path, but a grinders path in both hard and good times.
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Some goals can’t be kept secret (forever), but try to keep as many of them quiet (for as long) as possible.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"You see, if you ever wanted to ever be anything. There'll always be somebody that shoot down any dream."
"There'll always be haters, that's the way it is. Hater niggas marry hater bitches and have hater kids.
But they gon' have to take my life before they take my drive. 'Cause when I was barely livin', that's what kept me alive...
It's funny how these wack niggas need my help - Wasn't around when I couldn't feed myself."
But they gon' have to take my life before they take my drive. 'Cause when I was barely livin', that's what kept me alive...
It's funny how these wack niggas need my help - Wasn't around when I couldn't feed myself."
Modern Man Advice
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Yes, people that are close to you will either consciously, subconsciously, directly, or indirectly resent you for becoming a better person each day. And it is not that they don't care or love you, it's that you will remind them (if they are not on the same self-development growth journey as you) that they are being left behind. You will become a constant reminder of their unfulfilling lives and being stagnant. So again, they will either resent you or try to pull you back.
When you are on a path to "success" (whatever that means to you), you will have to be okay with losing people and people dissing you. It is part of that journey but you will end up finding people on the same wavelength as you along the way, so it's not all a loss.
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wifehunter
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Finally....a thread, NOT about chasing the coochie. 
Machine10033
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Look at the world it’s an absolute joke! You have a tranny... and an obese slob in the sports illustrated swimsuit edition!!!???
At my gym there are dudes wearing whoop watches.. or whatever they are... to see if they are overtraining. I watch them come in and do about 6 sets of curls in an hour.. drink a protein shake... shower and leave!!!
Most people’s purpose in life is to get drunk, high, and comfortable.
F anyone that hates on winners. They hate because they are too lazy to put in the work!
At my gym there are dudes wearing whoop watches.. or whatever they are... to see if they are overtraining. I watch them come in and do about 6 sets of curls in an hour.. drink a protein shake... shower and leave!!!
Most people’s purpose in life is to get drunk, high, and comfortable.
F anyone that hates on winners. They hate because they are too lazy to put in the work!
mrgoodstuff
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I like how you worded it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I first started to notice this years ago when people seemed to be exgtra rude and snippy with me when I wasx in a very positive and loving mind set. Now I only allow people who tolerate my good side with me on my journey.