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Master Don Juan
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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All the fvcking time.........and way back before the great flood.....look at how Cain fixed Abel.Found this youtube:
Once it starts it never ends. They work to reduce your improvements in effectiveness gained from your adjustments and growth. Identify who they are, make a note of it,, dont ever expect them to change. People have been killed behind becoming more successful or a more stand-up person.Great Canelo Alvarez footage and message. They are bad, judgemental, narcissistic and are quick to cut you down. Be careful, as they are family AND friends, not just strangers or mere acquaintances pulling this fvcksh!t.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah this is no joke. Lately I've been mentioning to family and relatives that I'm eligible for my first retirement in 12 years and they give me PUSHBACK. Unbelievable. They've seen me struggle for a decade and judged me harshly, turned away, etc. Then when it comes time to leave, or even threaten to leave and go do what I NEED to do next on my life checklist, they start caring. Seen it from senior enlisted military leadership and now family or friends. It does not fkn end. Worse is if they are all set or retired and doing this to you. Time to keep my moves primarily silent here on out. Not just the bizarre individuals I encounter in public (where it is now critical to blend in and not argue), but those I know in private.Once it starts it never ends. They work to reduce your improvements in effectiveness gained from your adjustments and growth. Identify who they are, make a note of it,, dont ever expect them to change. People have been killed behind becoming more successful or a more stand-up person.
Completely silent. The world is how it is.Yeah this is no joke. Lately I've been mentioning to family and relatives that I'm eligible for my first retirement in 12 years and they give me PUSHBACK. Unbelievable. They've seen me struggle for a decade and judged me harshly, turned away, etc. Then when it comes time to leave, or even threaten to leave and go do what I NEED to do next on my life checklist, they start caring. Seen it from senior enlisted military leadership and now family or friends. It does not fkn end. Worse is if they are all set or retired and doing this to you. Time to keep my moves primarily silent here on out. Not just the bizarre individuals I encounter in public (where it is now critical to blend in and not argue), but those I know in private.
People have been killed behind this shot. So you better be ready to die going after your dreams.Great Canelo Alvarez footage and message. They are bad, judgemental, narcissistic and are quick to cut you down. Be careful, as they are family AND friends, not just strangers or mere acquaintances pulling this fvcksh!t.
Improvement in your own life can anger others?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes, people that are close to you will either consciously, subconsciously, directly, or indirectly resent you for becoming a better person each day. And it is not that they don't care or love you, it's that you will remind them (if they are not on the same self-development growth journey as you) that they are being left behind. You will become a constant reminder of their unfulfilling lives and being stagnant. So again, they will either resent you or try to pull you back.Found this youtube:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.