TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Where are these bad white girls located? I just want to see how they act, cause most of the white girls here seem pretty cool to me...The spanish and black girls though, I dunno...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by baseballDJ
Hey hey no need to insult. He said from HIS observations. This is HIS generalization which I believe is a little broad (99.9% of american women suck but there is a few gems in this grand country but the gems are coming harder and harder to come by) but that is my belief. Does most american women suck yes and from what I have heard is canadian women suck too because they bought into the sick culture that we live in. From what I heard is that China is trying to buy into this culture alsoI hope that they don't because that is where i want to go find me a wife. (source National Geographic. They said that they are buying into all city westernized cultures societies) God I hope not
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I hear ya brother!! You're not in T.O. by any chance are you?Originally posted by stevera004
You're the reason I don't date Canadian women. Goodbye !
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Westcoaster - you should do alright in Alberta, it's just Toronto and Vancouver you gotta watch out for because all the women in those two cities are basically Americanised. (No offence to America as a country, of course.)Originally posted by WestCoaster
... than American women. Guess I was wrong.
Going to Banff next summer (hopefully) and I was hoping to meet and greet several women. I probably will anyway, but it sounds like they've adopted the b-tchiness of U.S. women.
Wow, that bar story is amazing. There's a reason why they're so mad: they're being knocked out of the market. More and more men I know are opting out of the U.S. American b-tch market and going for better looking AND nicer foreigners.
Tremendous foreign resume of women you posted by the way, nice job!
What I don't get is how so many of these American guys (AFCs) get really angry when I start posting the positives of foreign women and the negatives of U.S. women. I've had guys like with two posts come on and say, "I thought you hated American women, so why are you dating one," and so on. Guys I've never heard of, but man they get angry.
What I think is the truth hurts. These guys are either dating a fat, mean American woman or they're married to one.
I'll still date American women because the market where I live is full of them and very few foreigners. But when the choice is given to me between U.S. and foreign, it's an obvious pick: go foreign.
Good come back. Your posts never fail to entertain and enlighten.Originally posted by Soma
Do you have man-love for Westcoaster?
You didn't answer the simple question. Why are you being so defensive about this? Are you actually a US women, and just p1ssed that guys like me have wised up? Is that it?Originally posted by Soma
I helped to enlighten you...wow...I'm like Buddha or something. Goddamn. Now then, when will you be cutting off your arm? ... But trying to goad me into talking about it is gay.
Buddha bless you.
-Soma
Yeah dude, that's it. You got me!You didn't answer the simple question. Why are you being so defensive about this? Are you actually a US women, and just p1ssed that guys like me have wised up? Is that it?
I don't feel the need to argue about this. That's your bag.Answer the question, and make a genuine argument.
So, tell me about the wonder that is US woman. I am listening with an open mind.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Two things. One, you're spamming the board, and two, US women still suck.Originally posted by Soma
Wow, you really don't get it. haha
Fixed that for you.Originally posted by stevera004
Two things. One, you're spamming the board, and two, US women still suck, and Toronto women suck even more
Originally posted by stevera004
Two things. One, you're spamming the board, and two, US women still suck.
Hey, play nice. You're hurting my feelings over here.Originally posted by MetalFortress
SHUT UP ALREADY.
I'm trying to read and keep track of an interesting thread here, but you just keep poisoning it with your drivel. Stay out and go back to the kid's boards.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.