TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Where are these bad white girls located? I just want to see how they act, cause most of the white girls here seem pretty cool to me...The spanish and black girls though, I dunno...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Originally posted by baseballDJ
Hey hey no need to insult. He said from HIS observations. This is HIS generalization which I believe is a little broad (99.9% of american women suck but there is a few gems in this grand country but the gems are coming harder and harder to come by) but that is my belief. Does most american women suck yes and from what I have heard is canadian women suck too because they bought into the sick culture that we live in. From what I heard is that China is trying to buy into this culture alsoI hope that they don't because that is where i want to go find me a wife. (source National Geographic. They said that they are buying into all city westernized cultures societies) God I hope not
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I hear ya brother!! You're not in T.O. by any chance are you?Originally posted by stevera004
You're the reason I don't date Canadian women. Goodbye !
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Westcoaster - you should do alright in Alberta, it's just Toronto and Vancouver you gotta watch out for because all the women in those two cities are basically Americanised. (No offence to America as a country, of course.)Originally posted by WestCoaster
... than American women. Guess I was wrong.
Going to Banff next summer (hopefully) and I was hoping to meet and greet several women. I probably will anyway, but it sounds like they've adopted the b-tchiness of U.S. women.
Wow, that bar story is amazing. There's a reason why they're so mad: they're being knocked out of the market. More and more men I know are opting out of the U.S. American b-tch market and going for better looking AND nicer foreigners.
Tremendous foreign resume of women you posted by the way, nice job!
What I don't get is how so many of these American guys (AFCs) get really angry when I start posting the positives of foreign women and the negatives of U.S. women. I've had guys like with two posts come on and say, "I thought you hated American women, so why are you dating one," and so on. Guys I've never heard of, but man they get angry.
What I think is the truth hurts. These guys are either dating a fat, mean American woman or they're married to one.
I'll still date American women because the market where I live is full of them and very few foreigners. But when the choice is given to me between U.S. and foreign, it's an obvious pick: go foreign.
Good come back. Your posts never fail to entertain and enlighten.Originally posted by Soma
Do you have man-love for Westcoaster?
You didn't answer the simple question. Why are you being so defensive about this? Are you actually a US women, and just p1ssed that guys like me have wised up? Is that it?Originally posted by Soma
I helped to enlighten you...wow...I'm like Buddha or something. Goddamn. Now then, when will you be cutting off your arm? ... But trying to goad me into talking about it is gay.
Buddha bless you.
-Soma
Yeah dude, that's it. You got me!You didn't answer the simple question. Why are you being so defensive about this? Are you actually a US women, and just p1ssed that guys like me have wised up? Is that it?
I don't feel the need to argue about this. That's your bag.Answer the question, and make a genuine argument.
So, tell me about the wonder that is US woman. I am listening with an open mind.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Two things. One, you're spamming the board, and two, US women still suck.Originally posted by Soma
Wow, you really don't get it. haha
Fixed that for you.Originally posted by stevera004
Two things. One, you're spamming the board, and two, US women still suck, and Toronto women suck even more
Originally posted by stevera004
Two things. One, you're spamming the board, and two, US women still suck.
Hey, play nice. You're hurting my feelings over here.Originally posted by MetalFortress
SHUT UP ALREADY.
I'm trying to read and keep track of an interesting thread here, but you just keep poisoning it with your drivel. Stay out and go back to the kid's boards.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.