Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
It will ruin your chances with her unless she goes for married men. Also, take off your ring when you approach.:rockon:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Important Tip: Don't Tell Her You're Married
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BadAssMoFo
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You're pathetic.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
aye! this aint right.BadAssMoFo said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What made you bring this up?Dust 2 Dust said:
Dongfu
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Why are you married then?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
Wow. And im sure telling her that you're not married and taking off the ring will make her NOT find out you are married all the while she can see the imprint left from removing your ring... 
:trouble:
It's guys like you that give DJ's a bad name and that all guys cheat, lie, are dogs that will do anything to get sex, including....
"Important Tip: Don't Tell Her You're Married"...
:trouble: It's guys like you that give DJ's a bad name and that all guys cheat, lie, are dogs that will do anything to get sex,
including.... "Important Tip: Don't Tell Her You're Married"...
Dust 2 Dust said:
Cheaters really are pathetic. In another world they would be knocked down very low on the social ladder, hopefully underground...
Just kidding, but seriously, cheaters are no better than common criminals in my mind. They wreak havoac on other people's lives just so they don't have to initiate a breakup. It's sad that so many people are accepting of those who deserve to be social outcasts.
Just kidding, but seriously, cheaters are no better than common criminals in my mind. They wreak havoac on other people's lives just so they don't have to initiate a breakup. It's sad that so many people are accepting of those who deserve to be social outcasts.
JeeperCane
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An important tip is something like "Don't cross the streams". This just stupid.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.