Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
It will ruin your chances with her unless she goes for married men. Also, take off your ring when you approach.:rockon:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Important Tip: Don't Tell Her You're Married
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BadAssMoFo
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You're pathetic.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
aye! this aint right.BadAssMoFo said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What made you bring this up?Dust 2 Dust said:
Dongfu
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Why are you married then?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
Wow. And im sure telling her that you're not married and taking off the ring will make her NOT find out you are married all the while she can see the imprint left from removing your ring... 
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It's guys like you that give DJ's a bad name and that all guys cheat, lie, are dogs that will do anything to get sex, including....
"Important Tip: Don't Tell Her You're Married"...
:trouble: It's guys like you that give DJ's a bad name and that all guys cheat, lie, are dogs that will do anything to get sex,
including.... "Important Tip: Don't Tell Her You're Married"...
Dust 2 Dust said:
Cheaters really are pathetic. In another world they would be knocked down very low on the social ladder, hopefully underground...
Just kidding, but seriously, cheaters are no better than common criminals in my mind. They wreak havoac on other people's lives just so they don't have to initiate a breakup. It's sad that so many people are accepting of those who deserve to be social outcasts.
Just kidding, but seriously, cheaters are no better than common criminals in my mind. They wreak havoac on other people's lives just so they don't have to initiate a breakup. It's sad that so many people are accepting of those who deserve to be social outcasts.
JeeperCane
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An important tip is something like "Don't cross the streams". This just stupid.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.