"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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importance of 1st call after 1st date?

drift king

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how important is the 1st call after the 1st date?

assuming your date went really well and she has high interest.. if your phone game isn't the strongest is it not better just to text the arrangements for 2nd date etc? why risk acting afc on the phone and lower her previous high interest level?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bricka

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I find it more natural to just call if I want to set something up. You get to feel more of the conversation, her tone, her mood...etc, plus she also gets to feel yours which may or may not be a good thing. Plus the fact that I enjoy hearing a woman's voice :)

I also tend to get better response via a phone call compared to a text message.
I'm not very keen on text messaging in the first place.
 

drift king

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and if she doesn't pick up after you call.. do you leave a voicemail (saying what?)?
 

tsmith2334

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I wouldn't do a voice mail either. Just contact her somehow if she doesn't initiate contact first. A simple "I had fun" will do. I'd say it's pretty important.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thechallenger

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No Txt

:cool: No Texts They Are For The Shy And Suttle Types Or For A Quick Message But That Is Not One Of Them
 

MikeEdward1973

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DonS is a voice of reason.

I should hire him to beat the AFC out of me.
 
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