"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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importance of 1st call after 1st date?

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drift king

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how important is the 1st call after the 1st date?

assuming your date went really well and she has high interest.. if your phone game isn't the strongest is it not better just to text the arrangements for 2nd date etc? why risk acting afc on the phone and lower her previous high interest level?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I find it more natural to just call if I want to set something up. You get to feel more of the conversation, her tone, her mood...etc, plus she also gets to feel yours which may or may not be a good thing. Plus the fact that I enjoy hearing a woman's voice :)

I also tend to get better response via a phone call compared to a text message.
I'm not very keen on text messaging in the first place.
 
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and if she doesn't pick up after you call.. do you leave a voicemail (saying what?)?
 
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I wouldn't do a voice mail either. Just contact her somehow if she doesn't initiate contact first. A simple "I had fun" will do. I'd say it's pretty important.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No Txt

:cool: No Texts They Are For The Shy And Suttle Types Or For A Quick Message But That Is Not One Of Them
 
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DonS is a voice of reason.

I should hire him to beat the AFC out of me.
 
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