implying you expect sex

[pyros]

Hi.

So, lets say yo do not have a place of your own, you do not want to pay for a hotel room, and the girl you started seing has her own place.

How and when do you suggest you wanna go to her place?
I know the trick about bringing a movie but...
what other 'excuses' you succesfully used to invite you over?
and when did you do it? by date 2,3,...6?
did she agree? or did she turn you down? or maybe got upset cause you were implying you wanted to go to her place to bang her?

Just curious how you guys do.

 

[Zarky]

This happens to me quite frequently because I'm a loser couch-surfing broke-ass motherf*cker

I always try to set up the first date as a drinking date (ie., bars/pubs, NOT a restaurant) near her place. We get hammered and if things go well we wind up back at her place.

If she insists upon something more complex, she wants to come to "my area," or she wants to go somewhere distant, I move on to the next chick. If she doesn't invite me back to her place on the first date, I move on to the next chick. Simple as that.

In my opinion a first date should be a sex date. You should screen heavily before the date so you're not wasting your time or hers if she's looking to play hard to get. If I don't get a "DTF" vibe from the girl right away, I'm not going to waste my time or money on even one date with her.

But that's just me. I'm not out to "date," I'm out to get laid -- and quickly. All my actions are toward that end. I'd rather spend the evening at home doing my own thing than on some boring date with a girl who doesn't want to f*ck.

 

[Rainman4707]

I'd do it on the first date & when I'm dropping her off go for the kiss inside the car. I say "How good of a kisser are you on a scale of 1-10?

Her :- Blah Blah
Me :- I think you want to kiss me now.
Her :- (blushing) blah blah
Me :- I want to kiss you

I kiss her.

Works nearly every time.

It depends what you're after...if you want lay..then during kiss maybe smell her a bit & say "you smell soo good...kiss her roughly like a MAN..if you turn her on in car she'll really want you to come in & fu*k her.

Just say "You can twist my arm & allow me to come in for a cuppa"

 

[marmel75]

Hi.

So, lets say yo do not have a place of your own, you do not want to pay for a hotel room, and the girl you started seing has her own place.

How and when do you suggest you wanna go to her place?
I know the trick about bringing a movie but...
what other 'excuses' you succesfully used to invite you over?
and when did you do it? by date 2,3,...6?
did she agree? or did she turn you down? or maybe got upset cause you were implying you wanted to go to her place to bang her?

Just curious how you guys do.

Easy, tell her you are bringing a bottle of wine over and we can watch a movie...if she likes you she will gladly accept and yes she knows what you are trying to do. I usually do this on date 2.

Always deny it if she directly asks if you are coming over because you think you are going to have sex. Always put it on her, like "Whoa...guess we both know whats on your mind now!" and then say something like you just wanted to spend some time together and relax. They go for it every time. Well, at least if they like you they will